I wonder

Eh guys has this question ever came to you mind before? Would it be better if the girl you liked ignored you straight for liking her or be nice and be friends? I know i'm no saint....way back in sec 4, she tried to be nice and be friends she made it clear too, but i took advantage of it...and overstepped my boundaries and in the end both of us were unhappy. If she had just ignored me from the start would both of us be happier? Its like if a girl ignores a suitor, she won't feel good and others may call her a bitch. But if she chooses the alternate path, is it in the end any better?